Monday, April 30, 2012

Josiah-approved

How do you get a 5-year-old boy who would rather not sit down and color, to....well... sit down and color?

Colorix Silky Crayons 16-Color Set

Works every time!!  These crayons are really a little like coloring with a tube of lipstick.  We love them!  Here is one place you can find them for a great price.

(Gloves in a bottle might be a good idea for kids who are sensitive to colors absorbed through their skin, because I have no idea what they are made from, and they can get a little messy.)

Thursday, April 26, 2012

figuring this out

An exclamation from the 5-year-old this morning as he ate breakfast:

"It's gluten, and it's free!!"

Well, not quite.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

family Bible study

I have seen Bible studies for men, studies for women, and studies for small groups, but it is rare to find a Bible study written for families.

Jesus Is Better: Lessons from Hebrews

This study on the book of Hebrews from Simply Charlotte Mason looks to be an excellent guide for a family wanting to tackle this amazing New Testament book together, and really does include something for every age especially from early (with some creativity) to middle elementary on up.  We are hoping to work through it in our family this summer!

If you visit the SCM website, be sure to check out the GOAL study, also written for families.  And please leave a comment if you have found other family-friendly Bible study resources.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

the brain/gut connection

In the past couple of years, I have read a lot about the connection between diet and behavior.  If I could narrow what I've learned down to the three most helpful books, they would have to be the ones listed below.

Why Your Child is Hyperactive
by Dr. Ben Feingold

Why Your Child Is Hyperactive


Dr. Feingold was a pioneer in learning to understand the connection between hyperactivity and food additives.  He did not set out to help kids with hyperactivity but stumbled into the work while treating a patient with allergy symptoms.  Even though the information is 50 years old, it is still a great place to start when considering natural solutions for ADHD.

Healing the New Childhood Epidemics: Autism, ADHD, Asthma, and Allergies: The Groundbreaking Program for the 4-A Disorders
by Dr. Kenneth Bock

Healing the New Childhood Epidemics: Autism, ADHD, Asthma, and Allergies: The Groundbreaking Program for the 4-A Disorders

This book helped me understand the link between the rise in autism, ADHD, asthma, and allergies.  While all manifesting in different ways, these disorders actually have a similar underlying root cause: how the body deals with toxins.  While some of it is technical, there are many success stories and help in understanding how DAN doctors are looking at the body and treating these conditions.

Gut and Psychology Syndrome: Natural Treatment for Autism, Dyspraxia, ADD, ADHD, Dyslexia, Depression, and Schizophrenia
by Dr. Natasha Campbell-McBride

This is my most current read on the subject and really seems to get to the root of many neurological disorders: the condition of gut flora.  The author of this book was able to help her own autistic son recover through diet, and has helped hundreds more to find help and healing through implementing her GAPS diet.  With autism on the rise (1 in 55 boys are now diagnosed) it would be a good read for anyone concerned about what may be causing autism and related disorders.  While my child-bearing years are over, I have 3 children in my home who may be parents someday.  After our own battles linking diet with health and behavior issues, I want to consider these things seriously.

It will be interesting to watch what continued research in these areas will show.

Happy reading!

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Hope for a Difficult Child

Tara is a homeschooling mother of 4 children, and she offers an encouraging blog for parents of difficult children.  A few days ago she published a guest post of Josiah's story.  You can go there to get a quick synopsis of our journey, and then stay to read her excellent posts about the link between food and diet, sensory tips, snack and meal ideas, and godly encouragement.  If you have or know a difficult child, you will most certainly be blessed!

Friday, April 20, 2012

what tests can't measure

From Calvin and Hobbes:

Miss Wormwood: Calvin, your test was an absolute disgrace!  It's obvious you haven't read any of the material.  Our first president was NOT Chef Boy-Ar-Dee and you ought to be ashamed to have turned in such preposterous answers!

Calvin (after pausing to look incredulously at his paper): I just don't test well.

Last week my kids took standardized achievement tests.  This year was the same as any other year, except this year was our first to homeschool, so every day as soon as they closed the van door I peppered them with questions.  "How was it?  How do you think you did?  What was hard?  What was easy?"  I'm always interested in how my children are doing, but this year I could feel my interest heightened because now I am the main person in charge of their learning.  In some ways, that's just a little bit frightening.

But it's also been a good time to remind myself to have right thinking--biblical thinking--about standardized testing.  It seems obvious that these tests can be a fairly good measure of academic achievement.  However, there are several things they cannot tell us, and I wonder if at times I place higher value on them than I ought.  Here are a few things that standardized tests cannot measure:

1. They do not measure whether or not our children have truly acquired wisdom.

James 3:13 "Who is wise and understanding among you?  Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in humility that comes from wisdom."

According to Websters dictionary, wisdom is "the right use or exercise of knowledge, the choice of laudable means, and of the best means to accomplish them...the exercise of sound judgment in avoiding evils or attempting good."  By that definition, wisdom is knowledge applied with sound moral judgment.  A child can acquire tremendous intellectual ability and yet not be wise in application.  As a mother, I must constantly be watching to see how my children are applying the knowledge they have to daily living, and helping them to learn what it means to think biblically about the information they are now putting into practice.

2. They do not reveal whether or not our children are developing character.

Once again, the verse in James instructs us that the fruit of wisdom are deeds done in humility.  It is very easy to become conceited about what we know, until we realize the tremendous responsibility we have been given to use that knowledge to serve God and others.  Wisdom shows itself in patience, kindness, selflessness, and many other virtues that can't be measured except by watching how a child's actions reveal their view of God, others, and themselves.

3. They do not measure our value as teachers or our children's value as precious and loved by God.

This hits too close to home.  I was the sort of student who did well in school and tested well.  What I didn't realize at the time was how much of my sense of value was bound up in my grades and test scores.  That carried me through high school and college, but there did come a day when no one cared anymore what kind of grades I had earned, or what my ACT score had been (if they had cared in the first place).  But then there was a little life in my arms who depended on me daily for love, nourishment, and good character in order to ensure survival.  If we are finding our own or our children's value in test scores, we certainly are not looking high enough.  God has given each of us intrinsic value as men and women created in His image.  The child who is not able to be tested due to cognitive deficiencies is just as precious as the one who scores off the charts.  And what we do as our children's teachers can never be measured with pen and paper.

So what to do with standardized tests?  Should I just toss them out the window and assume they are unimportant?  Of course not.  But I will...

1. Use them as a measure of strengths and weaknesses to plan our next school year. 

I already know there are places one of my children will not test strong, because we are filling in some learning gaps.  I will be hoping to see growth in that child a few years from now, and will continue looking for ideas to help shore up weaknesses.  Strengths show me how my children are uniquely gifted and how God has wired them to learn.  It is exciting to have that information in hand to use as another tool in my box to teach them next year.

2. Share them only with much discretion.

My two oldest children started at a private school, and it did not take one of them long to realize they were "smart."  From the beginning, we were careful not to feed that child's pride regarding academic ability.  It was years before I shared test scores with either child, and then only to help understand a bit of the responsibility the child had to develop areas of giftedness or partner in learning where there were lags.  There are huge temptations regarding sharing this kind of information with anyone else.  "Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own lips," (Prov. 27:2) is a great verse to teach our children and remember ourselves.  I cringe to think how often I forget this principle either consciously or unconsciously when it comes to me or my children.

3. Remember to teach the whole child.

We have the smallest glimpse into Jesus' childhood in Luke 2.  Nowhere is it recorded how He got his education (we know it was probably quite humble because His earthly parents were not people of means but also quite complete knowing the wisdom He used in every situation He encountered), what sort of parenting techniques were used, or how He spent His free time.  But we do know "Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men" (Luke 2:52).  Jesus did grow intellectually, physically, spiritually, and socially through his childhood.  If I aim at all four of those areas in my children's development, I will be well on my way to helping them to become the man or woman God created them to be.

4. Remember God.

He is the one we look to for the development of moral character in our children, because we know godly morals can only come about by the knowledge of His word through the work of the Spirit.  How much more can we trust Him to guide the intellectual development of the children He has given us?  Whatever my children do or become after their school years, He is the one who deserves all the glory.

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

which hemisphere do you prefer?

Every once in awhile, it seems that I stumble across a key that unlocks a mystery in one of my children.  While browsing learning styles on the internet a few evenings ago, one of those keys was placed in my hand.

It involves my daughter.

Rachel is one of those happy-go-lucky girls that loves animals, nature, science, history, and dreaming.  She's a quick learner but doesn't always retain things.  I've already shared that math seemed to open up to her when we began using a program that teaches her visually how to approach a problem.  Our use of a workbook-style vocabulary curriculum this year led to frustration and hair pulling (that was me, pulling mine.)  She told me recently that she wants to try theater this summer "more than she's ever wanted to do anything."  That's quite a statement from a girl who usually just wants to be at home.

Take all these seemingly random characteristics, and then google "right brain learning."

Rachel's name will pop up.

Ok, not her name, but certainly her learning style.  It has taken me 11 years of living with this girl (but only one of homeschooling, so cut me some slack), to realize that she thinks in pictures, not words.  Instead of sequential, fill in the blank, logical learning, she prefers random, whole-to-part, fantasy engagement.

No wonder I've been drawn to get her a vocabulary workbook that taught with picture clues.

No wonder she likes to act out her stories with her stuffed animals. 

No wonder she's been asking for a tank to collect pond creatures.

The true wonder is discovering the amazing ways God has wired our children and then helping them learn more about the wondrous world He has made.

Want to know what you or your children are?  Click here to take a right brain/left brain test.  (I found out where some of her right brain tendencies came from that way.)